Message from the Rosh HaYeshiva
I hope you all are well and are
surviving what hopefully are the last gasps of winter. Learning at yeshiva is
continuing apace as first and second year students make progress in their
various mesekhtot
and third and fourth year students complete the sugya of
birkat eirusin, the mitzvah and institution of kiddushin, and the notion
of kiddushin as kinyan, and move on to the
issues of the ownership and giving of the ring.
Monday was a particularly powerful day, as
we cleared our afternoon classes to devote the entire afternoon to the topic of
Preventing Child Abuse. The presenters for the day were Victor Vieth and
Dr. Shira Berkovits, and the sessions were moderated by Dr. Michelle Friedman.
Victor Vieth is the foremost expert on child abuse, and serves as the Executive
Director Emeritus of the National Child Protection Training Center, and
institute which trains approximately 15,000 child protection professionals each
year. Dr. Shira Berkovits is a postdoctoral psychology fellow at Einstein's
Kennedy Center, where she provides therapy to parents and young children with
trauma backgrounds, and has developed a guide for preventing child
sexual abuse in synagogues, which will hopefully become a standard in the
Orthodox community.
As we all know, this is a
matter of utmost importance for rabbis. First, to have policies in place that
will ensure that such abuse never takes place on their premises by synagogue
members or by employees of their institutions. One student pointed out the
irony that when he applied for a lease on his apartment, he had to do a
background check, but when he took a job as a youth leader in a synagogue, no
one did a background check.
But the responsibility goes
further. The larger majority of abuse is perpetrated not by strangers, but by
friends and family members. As future rabbis, our students will be uniquely
placed to be able to see and identify signs of abuse that take place elsewhere
and to be positioned to do something about it. They must be certain that they
are doing all that they can to protect those innocent children in our community
and this training is a critical necessity.
We were joined on Monday by the
Maharat students and by a number of rabbis in the field watching via
livestream. Students were profoundly impacted by the sessions, with one student
mentioning to me that it was the most meaningful day he had in yeshiva the
whole year.
If you would like to watch the sessions,
you can view them on our
livestream channel here. Please make sure to click on
"Event Details" where you will find a link for the PowerPoint slides
used in the presentation.
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